Play Live Radio
Next Up:
0:00
0:00
0:00 0:00
Available On Air Stations
Connections

How do we talk about death? We ask an end-of-life doula how to prepare

Jennifer Sanfilippo, her husband Jim, and their sons Giacomo and Gianni at the hospital in 2020 during Jim's cancer treatment.
Provided
Jennifer Sanfilippo, her husband Jim, and their sons Giacomo and Gianni at the hospital in 2020 during Jim's cancer treatment.

12:00: End-of-life doula Jennifer Sanfilippo

1:00: How music can help people in recovery thrive

"Death cafes" are surprisingly popular, and end-of-life doulas are in demand. Americans, it turns out, are not very good at talking about dying -- or planning for it. And we all do it. Jennifer Sanfilippo shifted her work to become an end-of-life doula after her husband died from an aggressive form of cancer. He was in his 50s, and it all happened quickly. Now, Sanfilippo helps people of all ages talk about loss, grief, and death. She's written a book about her experience and she helps lead the community in various ways. She's our guest for the hour. In studio:

  • Jennifer Sanfilippo, end-of-life doula and author of “"Our Last Walk Home: Love, Cancer, and the Agony of Letting Go”

Then in our second hour, fatal overdoses have soared in recent years, and while opioids are a big factor, they are not the only reason for the increase. An organization in Rochester called Sobriety Sounds aims to give people suffering from addiction a chance to thrive. The origin story is a tragic one: founder Matthew Hoye remembers kneeling at a coffin and wondering if music could have prevented a friend's death; now, he’s working to create musical spaces that are safe and accessible to others – both now and in the future. We discuss it all with guests from Sobriety Sounds. In studio:

  • Matthew Hoye, founder and president of the board for Sobriety Sounds, Inc.
  • Eli Flynn, multi-instrumentalist, music therapist, and songwriter
  • Scott Fitzgerald, board member for Sobriety Sounds, and owner of ROC Vox Recording & Production, LLC
Connections
Evan Dawson is the host of "Connections with Evan Dawson." He joined WXXI in January 2014 after working at 13WHAM-TV, where he served as morning news anchor. He was hired as a reporter for 13WHAM-TV in 2003 before being promoted to anchor in 2007.
Megan Mack is the executive producer of "Connections with Evan Dawson" and live/televised engagement programming.

Connections with Evan Dawson

Connections is our daily, live talk show. It airs live weekdays, noon-2 p.m., and re-airs at 9 and 10 p.m. You can also find us wherever you find your podcasts.

Join us with questions or comments by phone at 1-844-295-TALK (8255), email, Facebook or Twitter.

Do you have a story that needs to be shared? Pitch your story to Connections.

For transcripts, please email our Move to Include team with the day, subject, and start time (noon or 1 pm) of the episode for a transcript.